Evolutionary psychology and dating
We realize that our approach and our frankness will rankle some social scientists, including some serious and well-intentioned rape investigators.
Undoubtedly, individual rapists may have a variety of motivations.whether grasshopper or gorilla, German or Ghanaian.has evolved to produce healthy children that will survive to pass along their parents. The mechanics of the phenomenon are simple: animals born without traits that led to reproduction died out, whereas the ones that reproduced the most succeeded in conveying their genes to posterity.Our friend was emotionally scarred by her experience: she became anxious about dating, and even about going out in public.She had trouble sleeping, eating and concentrating on her work.Surely, eradicating sexual violence is an issue that modern society should make a top priority.
But first a perplexing question must be confronted and answered: Why do men rape?
A man may rape because, for instance, he wants to impress his friends by losing his virginity, or because he wants to avenge himself against a woman who has spurned him.
But social scientists have not convincingly demonstrated that rapists are not at least partly motivated by sexual desire as well.
And of course much can be, and is, done to protect people against natural threats.
from administering antibiotics to drawing up emergency evacuation plans.
The details hardly matter, but in outline her story is numbingly familiar.